Thanks for the perspective, KD. I was afraid of seeming over-eager. At least, on the surface, it seems hard to imagine that my pastor, who'd helped me to such a large revelation, would encourage or validate any thoughts towards divorce.
Would it be appropriate to text her his number, along with a note that I'd forgotten to give it to her when she'd ask? This is somewhat true, when she'd asked about it was not in an environment where I could just hand it to her on a piece of paper.
Tithing is about making God a priority, giving to the local church what is His. It does support the church, but the effect on the person is surrender to and making a priority of God's authority. In short, sacrifice. I would have a much harder time doing it if it was simply supporting the church - my church is doing quite well, financially! lol
Me: 31 W: 28 M: almost 6 T: 10.5 S2 Bomb#1: 05/11 Bomb#2: 11/11 S'd: 11/28/11 Moved back in: 12/28/11 MC: 06/28/12