interesting that her men of choice are NOT available...
is that b/c they'll never be available and therefore they are safe, or b/c she's sure to get rejected by them?
I had a long post to you that got zapped yesterday. To sum up, aside from the great stuff Sandi & others have posted,
your wife has a batchit crazy temper. I'd point that out sometime. And the double standards but you must always be calm and then make your point and leave.
The MOST you can accomplish is getting her to THINK or reflect. She won't back down in the heat of the moment from what I can tell.
In my whole married life 30+ years, neither I nor anyone I know has thrown something...maybe h once early on. Don't recall why or if for sure, but he was sleep deprived.
The calmer person in an argument is the one with "the power". That's why talking calmly to your kids when they're losing it, usually helps more than yelling. Figure out a way to not be a doormat but without escalating
But if it does escalate b/c you stood up for yourself, so be it.
((( )))
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