can your L delay it? If you have no L, that's insane..get one...enough said.
If not - then show up and tell her just in case she doesn't know --that you "really do NOT want a divorce. She's the love of your life and you have changed and know things could be good again and you want to be the h she deserves."
I don't see what you have to lose at this point...
If she persists, it's still "not over." I have 2 family members who divorced and remarried a few years later. It happens.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016