Down Again - Is he done yet?

[courageous wife]

Hi DU

I am not able to visit the boards very often and am I so sorry to read that your H still seems to be in a depressive state.

I can tell that you have become a much stronger and more confident woman from when you first started posting! I know it is so so hard to stand back and NOT let your H's moods affect you but that is what you have to do! Snodderly is so right when she says that you need to take the focus off of him on put it (back)on YOU!

"I have been praying to keep my spirits up and to remain at a zero expectations level. For those of you out there, GALng and keeping a loving distance seems to work for me. I just HAVE to keep at it."

You wrote this just a few days ago!!! Very good advice to yourself!

Take care!
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