One more question if I may 25yearsmlc, in LuckyLukes Upstairs/Downstairs post you posted a bunch of tips on what not do do when the Bomb is dropped. I find myself doing some of those but we're talking about working this out, not working apart at the moment so not sure how far to go with some of that stuff. Like texting. W was getting several texts a day from OG, now nothing, I sort of feel like I should fill in the hole a bit here but not sure how far to go.