Originally Posted By: BeingMe
Sometimes, the WAS gets angrier because he/she feels the changes are too little, too late, and it might not last. That's why you have to be consistent, and be true to yourself. His switch on having a family is huge, and I would think that that is more to worry about then your untidiness, clinginess, etc. How much resentment will you have against him, if he leaves you later, and you are unable to have children then, with someone else.



yeah, i have thought a lot about that. i guess a large part of me is hoping that this switch is mlc motivated, and that once he comes out of it, his feelings might change. i'm still struggling with my feelings on this to be perfectly honest.