DB'ing is sooooo hard (part 2)

[kolja]

"Nine months of post bomb existance sounds like a lot and can feel like a lot, but in terms of what my W is going through its not a lot of time."

I wonder what the gestation period is for the rebirth of a marriage?

Maybe this is the male version of giving birth....is incredibly painful and seems to go on forever

yes, I know that sounds whiny...in fact it is whiny

I'd say sign me up for the epidural, but then someone would rightly point out that would eliminate the personal growth and whatnot