I'm in a rush but go back and read that post I wrote a few days back...on an earlier thread I believe.
Not sure why you gave the present to her...but it's done.
Stop getting mad at h. Focus on the kids and make sure that you don't have jealousy as your "real" motive
but suggest to your h that he not use that belief as an excuse to avoid looking at his choices...
Let go of what you cannot control. Things will run their course-
YOUR job is YOUR work on YOURSELF..
how's that going?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016