25yearsmlc message to peeps

[BFloat]

Thanks for starting this thread 25. I have been reading and trying to make sense of everything.

I've been trying to figure out if my WAS is #1 or #2. It's all so confusing. He has honestly not said anything negative towards me which makes is so difficult to figure out what I need to change. I think the finances bothered him.. He says he wants to learn to be independant.. And basically wants to see what's out there.

So I think going dark is the best thing for me? Because obviously the crying and reasoning have clearly not worked.

It hurts especially because of my 2 little ones. But the more I talk about them, the more he seems convinced they'll be ok. Sigh.