Got an email from my L that he had emailed my W's L requesting the Case Information due in November. He stated that her L was waiting for W to provide more information but that it was coming. I wonder if she is having 2nd thoughts. Like I said in my other post, W last night behaved strange. As if she wanted to say something. I don't know if I should have a talk about the D and what are her thoughts. Last time I did, it did not go well but I know that W won't tell me if she is having 2nd thoughts or start that convo. My W fired her 1st L because she had failed to file the same info? This is all so very crazy.
Rick, I think you know that you should not initiate a R discussion. All you can do is set the stage for your W to initiate if/when she is ready. As others have said, don't mind read because it will make you crazy. But, should a R conversation occur, be prepared to validate and respond calmly and in a loving and supportive way.
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