Sorry you find yourself here but it does sound like you may be in a better position than some of us. Your H still seems to be engaging w/ you and willing to spend some time together.
My H and I use to spend a lot of time together sitting in front of the TV watching movies. We were together but totally disengaged as one of use would be on our phone and the other would be doing something else at the same time. What a mistake.
Brian suggested taking dance classes. H and I had done that in better times and we had a blast! Even talked about taking more classes together but we never did.
Go have fun if you are able to with H. If not, go yourself and maybe he'll want to join you then.
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11