Hi Nblost I was hoping we would hear from you. As they say, 'What is good for the goose is good for the gander'. Let him sit at home with the kids and think, and think, and think - letting his imagination run wild. I am sorry to say, but not saying he is willing to give up his A is a major slap in the face. I would tell him to go twist in the wind, personally. All the best and take care.