Living in the trenches....Thread #5

[25yearsmlc]

Not sure what to say Navy...

I'm torn. I want to stay DBing but am not sure what the approach is. What you are doing isn't "really" working now. It has been a YEAR....that's long enough to look for some movement.

But once I asked you to make a choice. I think I said you have 3 options.

1) You stay and DB your butt off so the m improves...and if not, you go find some dang bliss.

2) You stay and be the best dad you can be, and accept a "Cold War" between you and your w, in perpetuity....

3) You stay and confront, in some form of DBing, and ask her what "progress" she's referring to and get an idea of what she thinks SHE is doing to help things....

is merely being there, her "work"? If so, ask for more. IF she says "no"...

Then go back to your first two options and choose...