np, Autumn. Yes, these conferences really are about take. They are completely "safe" and our take is completely limited by us. As soon as we go into resistance (which is an internal indicator that we have work to do in that area) and we close ourselves off to the opportunity to grow, we loose out and only hurt ourselves.
I misread and thought your H was going, as well. No matter your take, and you may be instructed this way, please do not "push" your experience on your H. He will get everything he needs by experiencing your own personal growth from the experience. And that by itself, will be able to help nudge your own sitch in a positive direction.
