Tested metal, and thats one thing about relatives - blood is always thicker than water! I did talk about our sitch to my H's sibsand it did backfire on me. Although they did support me, they took it upon themselves to tell my H that they felt he should stay, and although in the end my H did stay, it brought up some bad feelings in him about me making him seem bad to his family.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go