And thanks for the feedback about your conference too KD. It is actually just me attending but your point made me consider that what I get from it could potentially affect H (negatively or positively) based on what I get out of it, and what I bring home with me.
I fully intend to get the most out of this. Something you said really resonates with me, I am only responsible for my own path and and H for his. I can want the best for him but not do it for him.
Thanks so much for your post, I will absolutely keep that in mind.
