Living in the trenches....Thread #5

[Navyguy]

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hate to be cynical here...but your w has a roof over her head and food on the table and her tuition paid for, ALL b/c of you..

and a babysitter for the kids....so she "doesn't know what SHE wants"....but MAYBE she'll want to go to law school....

I think there's a strategic reason for her staying. I forgot how long you have been married, but at some point the military will award her part of your pension...

Sorry Navy, but I don't believe she's "working on the m" at this point. She's biding her time.

But for the life of me, her inability to change HERSELF or the dynamic is very hard to witness or understand.

She's unhappy and YOU CANNOT change that.

Hmmm. I agree about the not "working on the M" thing. Are you saying I should confront her about biding her time?