Living in the trenches....Thread #5

[Navyguy]

KD raises some good points....

and I wanted to ask, how great is your kid's life now if your d6 has to construct make up scenes for you two?

She KNOWS things are not right, and if this keeps up, I don't think her view of m will be such a "healthy happy" one as you claim...

maybe if you were in a healthy m, she could see THAT...

instead of what is.

25...I totally agree...and that is probably the single thing that bothers me the most about my sitch. I think a good part of what I'm dealing with now is a result of how W and I were raised...and I don't want my kids to grow up that way.

I still see a lot of positives of having both of us around though. They are very loved, and have great relationships with both of us. If W and I split, they would be in daycare. I wouldn't get to see them every day. While W and I have greatly differing personalities, I think we do provide a great balance to each other in the way we raise them.

I would love nothing more than for my D6 to see a healthy M, and I have no doubt I could have one with someone else...I just don't want it to be at the expense of the things I just listed...and that is why I'm still here a year into this.