Have you visited with a counselor? I was going weekly (down to ever other week now) and my psychologist has been VERY helpful. I am becoming a better man and I am also learning about people in general. I think I will probably always go now the rest of my life, even just once a month for a "tune up".
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012