Together since we were 15...Part 2

[purgatory]

LOL- thanks for trying to catch up on my threads.... they are LONG, sorry. You were on my mind too- it's crazy how someone I've never met, has been a great comfort and someone that I genuinely have concern for

I don't know about you- but when someone tells me that I *can't or won't* do something.... I'm become MORE motivated to do it!! My H used to tell me that I become a stubborn bull when I really put my mind to something. He would say: "There is no one or nothing that can stop you when you are determined, You are a force to be reckoned with!" He used to say it as a positive quality.... I challenged him a few months ago in our MC session with that same statement. I said: "if you say that I will never give up until I get what I want, why do you think my determination for my marriage is any different?!" He didn't have a response to that! But, we see how good it's worked so far

I recently told my H that I'm going to go skydiving in a few months... he was shocked and said: "I'll believe it when I see it!".... well, guess what I'm going to do!!! [btw, I wanted to do something empowering to make me proud of myself, I can't run a marathon because of my heart, but I CAN do skydiving!]

You should find something that J would never think you would/could ever do and become a master at it! Show him that you are no longer a damsel in need of rescuing!