So sorry you are here Molly but oh yes...there is probably someone else.
STOP having sex with him. He wants a divorce remember? Where is your dignity? THIS IS A PERSONAL CHOICE...The DB books AND coaches stress this with several in depth questions only YOU can answer. There is NO absolute right or wrong and it's incredibly personal and intimate.
I don't believe advice that goes against DB advice should be handed out b/c it may have worked for you Luv. Just say "this worked for" you but concede that it's personal, and your way was Not what DB recommends. Don't ask her where her dignity is...good grief.
I'll post more later Molly.
I have been where you are. You'll look back and regret it if you don't do what's good for YOU first.
Step back...let him go and work on yourself. IF he wants your marriage he will have to work for it. In the meantime you are working on you. With or without him.
Luv
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
