Light at the end of the tunnel......

[NYCPeter]

KD - The way my W is acting, I doubt an earthquake will cause any turbulence. She's on a fast-track to get this done (not surprising as it's been so long since the bomb), I'm not going to put up any barriers to prevent it. Just make sure that from a legal perspective I get what I want.

WHG - Thanks for the recommendations, I think some books would be a great idea.

Forgot to mention earlier - W wasn't totally against the idea of 50/50 - just wasn't sure how it would work as she would want some weekends, I said that was fine as long as they had an equal number of overnights at my place. What I didn't mention was that I'll be applying for a reduction in CS and SS as a result.

I guess this is almost another form of DBing - acceptance and moving on - but at the same time looking out for the best interests of my girl.