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I said something very similar on my thread yesterday-one day you're sharing everything and the next day-POOF! It's like you are little more than cordial strangers.
Amen... I was thinking that tonight as I reminisced... just last February I was in Florida on Valentine's Day due to work travel and my W texted me some racy photos of her. Something she had NEVER done before... then in May we were touring a modular home builder looking at floorplans and designs... in June we were planning how to take the kids to Disney World next summer... and in July the wheels started to come off this thing. We're more than cordial strangers at this point I guess... we did have that period though. Now I'd call us "old friends" who happen to have kids together.

What I find both funny and odd at the same time is that because we either a) have been together so long or b) have similar likes/thoughts (or both I suppose) we still routinely find ourselves doing the same thing. Just yesterday my W told my S he was "hot-blooded" and as I walked away and into the dining room I found myself singing "Hot Blooded" by Foreigner. And as I came into the living room there was my W singing the same song and we were at the exact same point...


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD