Light at the end of the tunnel......

[workinghardguy]

it's really going to break my heart when she finds out what's going to happen.

I know things aren't good between your W and you. But from my recent experience if you can present it together it will go better. Also, we bought three books for our five year old son: It's not your fault Ko-Ko Bear, Two Houses, and My Family is Changing. The first two might be a little too simple for your d, but maybe not. They've so far been invaluable with my s. We read Ko-Ko again tonight at his request.

Also, don't be too afraid of the move part. For kids your daughter's age moving is a great adventure. As much as my SD and S are upset by this, they are still looking forward to moving, new rooms, a new neighborhood, etc...

And be ready for the oddest concerns to come at you from left field. Tonight my son interrupted Ko-Ko Bear to tell me he was scared that there would be big rats at my W's rental house. I have no idea where that came from, but I can say that I never would've guessed that question.