I spoke to my L - and told him to respond asking for 50/50 - appropriate reduction in CS and spousal support. I'll let the L deal with the fine details.
W and I spoke to a realtor today - they are coming around to take a look at the house tomorrow to value and give comments etc.
I checked out a couple of apartments yesterday to guage the sort of property I can afford post-divorce, I kinda liked one of them (though it would be a stretch to afford it). It would be perfect 2-bedrooms, with a little playground on-site and close to a pool for the summer.
W has been very distant - it's a business transaction to her, what can she get out of this.
Girls were both busy with activities yesterday so got to hang out with a friend in a bar and watch the Giants game. D7 was being very clingy tonight - it's really going to break my heart when she finds out what's going to happen.
Peace everyone.....
M47 W45 D10 (Has CP) D7 M12 T14 ILYBINILWY 5/1/11 Asked for seperation 5/10/11 Seriously DBing 7/1/11 W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11. Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11 D - Final 7/11/12