I am in no position to offer any input as I am a complete mess! But I will say..

OMG! WTH?

"Why do I continue to put myself through this??!!! He is so determined to go through with the D- every word he says to me reminds me of this- why can't I just let go and move on?? Every bone in my body says that this isn't over yet... but every action from him says that it is!"

I think this is what I'm going through too.

Deep breaths. Thats about all I can offer smile. But I'm keeping up to date w/ your sitch! That's gotta count for something wink.

Was taking the baby with you an option?


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11