Hi Purg, sorry you're having a crappy day. Your H is scared about being responsible for the kids. He's been eating his cake so far, now he will have to get a taste of the reality - the consequences for his decisions.
"H: "There is NOTHING the same about these sitchs! You are CHOOSING to leave, I had no choice. You worked full time at the preschool and could take S with you... I have to work my full time job AND now do YOUR JOB at home too. You shouldn't have gone down this road, because they are nothing a like!"
Wow. "Your Job at home" Not sure what to say, just wow. It never seizes to amaze me how the WAS can turn the tables so easily and make you feel guilty/responsible for the consequences of THEIR decisions. You did AMAZING by staying calm, which seems to have calmed him down. Your H still seems very uneasy with his decision and is nervous about you being away. I hope you do decide to get away. It must be so difficult to know that your kids will be with OW though. At the same time, you know that they will be taken care of. IMHO, you're doing a fabulous job DBing!
