Rick & Ces: thanks for a guy's perspective on the 'checking out' thing. Even though I have been loosing weight, I haven't drastically changed my wardrobe. In fact, I'm discovering that some old stuff is fitting again- so I'm saving money by shopping in the back of my closet!

Crimson: I really appreciate you're perspective about the letter. I agree with you, that it shouldn't be about pursuing- more about my self-awareness, acceptance, and goals for the future.

SH: I will check out the site! I could any and all help right now smile

Wen: It had to make you feel goo to see H grinning at you.... make all the hard work to loose weight pay off!


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12