Take your time away from them to cry and feel all the sadness.... because once you are around them, they need you to be happy and fun- since we all know that's what they deserve.

I guess I'm lucky because I see both my boys everyday, even on the days that it's H's turn. I'm not sure how I will handle not being around them for 2 weeks (while I take my 'healing' vacation)... I'm sure I'll be posting some emotional trauma too.

The fact that you are so determined to create a better life for them because "they deserve more" is a testament to what a great mom you are smile

and not to hijack, but Bklyn- you too are showing your true strength as a mom everyday in the life that you are creating for your kids.

((BF)) You know that you have the ability to pick yourself up and create a path towards the best future for you and your kids.... you've just gotten lost a little along the way. I hope you find your way back with the help of your family and this board, we are all rooting for you smile

M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12