I will start my own thread soon. Yes, I agree that love is a choice. And I agree that we can CHOOSE to stay in the M regardless of our partners actions.
BUT...
You can only do that for so long. You can only feel unloved, unwanted and uncared for so long at which point it becomes survival.
There are no retakes in life. I wanted to make it work with my W but it just wasn't happening. So I want to make sure my life is spent loving AND BEING LOVED!
Yes I am unsure and sad and surviving... I still feel like a LBS.
But I will not allow myself to be controlled by the fear any longer. I'm taking charge of my own happiness because I have learned that no matter how much I wanted things to work, they would only have worked with both of us loving.
Have a wonderful night...
SBH, thanks for stopping by with some clarification on your sitch. I'm sorry to see you hurting.
I completely respect where you are coming from. I will look out for your thread. In the meantime, be well.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
