Exactly. It's not even giving and receiving that matters at all to me. I pour to do stuff 'just because' but that makes him uncomfortable. My problem is with not being recognized as significant in any way on a day that the people around me are. It's a reminder that I don't really have a place in his heart. A hug and a simple 'happy v day' would more than suffice.

We will see.......sigh


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!