G, what I've discovered is that "you know what" is far less important to me. What's important is to feel that someone else matters to you and you matter to them. She seems to like daily contact so I'll keep that up but I'm not gonna push anything. With MM there was a time issue, I had a couple of weeks to cram all my activity ideas into before she started that other job. I wanted our connection to be firm before then, that was pressure. Here there is no pressure. This lady is here and what she's doing this week is what she'll be doing next week. We have time to enjoy getting to know each other if that is what is going to be. One step at a time though, next Sunday is the focus for now. She was the one who actually suggested the museum as an outing. When I told her I'd really enjoyed the time we'd spent together she enthusiastically replied "me too!" I get the feeling we are in the same space here, that's nice. Hey G, "hehehe" is what all the Filipino ladies write! All that time hanging around with your pinay friends is showing lol. ...and thanks Kat!
