Separated But Living Under the Same Roof, Part II

[BklynMom]

I know how you feel. My H has acknowledged my changes but it doesnt matter cause its too late.

The following is as much to myself as it is to you. We need to be patient. What we are doing is working they have seen the changes. They are afraid. They are terrified. It took them so much effort to get the strength to leave they dont want to do this again.

They need to believe that the changes are real. Keep it up!

I know that they are committed to this never working but they are just trying to convince themselves of that so they can justify what they are doing to the kids

I find it hard to believe that a mother would choose to be a single mom of 3, when her H has committed to be a better father & husband and also just got a promotion. Come on!