It is so hard for me when I am not with my kids. I think especially because they are babies being separated just doesnt feel right.
I think we expect too much of ourselves and need to be gentle. This is a traumatic experience and while we need to GAL and do 180s we also need time to cry. Do your best to balance the 2.
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