It is so hard for me when I am not with my kids. I think especially because they are babies being separated just doesnt feel right.

I think we expect too much of ourselves and need to be gentle. This is a traumatic experience and while we need to GAL and do 180s we also need time to cry. Do your best to balance the 2.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13