I have kept my BIL and SIL informed of my H's actions. They both say they will always be a part of my family, even if H and I end up divorced.

Of course he never talks to them or contacts them. So I guess that makes sense.... I have been their friend for 33 years now!

I hope you and xsil can resume your friendship.

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!