Harrier, you are a brave man moving back in "for financial reasons". Aside from the actual functionality of sleeping arrangements, etc... what are your intentions or how will this affect your DB efforts, do you think? What are some little goals? How might you handle your W going on a date, or if you go on a date...? Or have a "friend" over...

It sounds like you'll be room mates... but I scrinch my face thinking that's certainly not quite the case...

And sorry for the hijack here...

HEY SBH, so you gave your W the ILYBINILWY bomb? How does that change your perspective of being the LBS to that of being the WAS? Where's your thread...?