hey, her Dad was a Military Policeman in the Philippines...and she loves history, that's why we're going to the museum next Sunday together. You should have seen her face when I told her she was beautiful in Tagalog. I'd teased her the night before texting "maybe I'll have some new Tagolag words for you tomorrow" She texted me back in Tagalog so I googled what she wrote. She replied "Wow, you're good. Is someone there helping you lol?" and I said "Yes...Google translator!" She wrote "OK, smarty pants lol". So yesterday I said "here are the new words I learned for you" She took a deep breath, her eyes widened and she grabbed her cheeks smiling. It went well, I'd say...or she was having some sort of heart palpatation lol!
Hey she can't even say the word "sex" let alone talk about my equipment...she refers to sex as "you know what"! She said sometimes she's talked on chat with guys and they start out OK but within minutes they are talking about "you know what" and she says "I don't want to talk about...you know what, why would I want to talk about you know what with a stranger anyway! I'm very conservative" Her online profile was done by her best friend who said to her "SDA Lady you've been in Canada for four years now, it's time to meet a man!" and she did the profile for her, some of the basic info is even wrong! SDA Lady says she doesn't know how to change it lol! She's really 43 not 44 etc. She said "I told her, what am I supposed to do when I meet them? Do I shake hands or hug them? What if they try to kiss me?" I said "SDA Lady, I promise not to try to kiss you today, OK lol" Honestly, I think she feels like she has hit a goldmine with me here's a sweet, respectful, funny, intelligent, handsome guy to spend time with...who won't talk about "you know what" or try to kiss her on the first date! It's all good...so far!
It certainly is looking good. Take teeny tiny steps. Hey, we military policemen are everywhere.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Hey Wii It sounds good. Slow down & don't smother her. I would go back & read everything you wrote about your time with M so you don't repeat history. Going slow is best & keeping the "dates" shorter - leaves her wanting more & there is much romance in the mystery & much enjoyment while getting to know each other. FYI - maggot's dad was a police chief in Guyana - he approved of her R with MY husband - doesn't always mean that much. But she does sound lovely & I'm happy for you. You know you have cheerleaders here rooting for you. Just keep that tendency to go overboard in check Barb
Thanks Barb and Being Me. What's nice about SDA Lady, and different than MM, is there are no mixed signals. She's quite clear about where she's at, she responds to my flirty sweet remarks with her own flirty sweet remarks. We did talk about the different dating styles in her culture versus mine and I said "hey, if we decide we want be together, we'll make it work!" She said "we just need to respect each other". Works for me!
G, what I've discovered is that "you know what" is far less important to me. What's important is to feel that someone else matters to you and you matter to them. She seems to like daily contact so I'll keep that up but I'm not gonna push anything. With MM there was a time issue, I had a couple of weeks to cram all my activity ideas into before she started that other job. I wanted our connection to be firm before then, that was pressure. Here there is no pressure. This lady is here and what she's doing this week is what she'll be doing next week. We have time to enjoy getting to know each other if that is what is going to be. One step at a time though, next Sunday is the focus for now. She was the one who actually suggested the museum as an outing. When I told her I'd really enjoyed the time we'd spent together she enthusiastically replied "me too!" I get the feeling we are in the same space here, that's nice. Hey G, "hehehe" is what all the Filipino ladies write! All that time hanging around with your pinay friends is showing lol. ...and thanks Kat!
