The not so Waste Land

[Sad_but_happy]

Been a long hard road Harrier. I wish you luck.

For me and my sitch, I've lived without love for far too long. No real affection, no hearing "I love you".

So I am drafting a seperation agreement and leaving. And last night when I told her, she was crying and begging and wanting me to stay.

But my sitch is more complex than most. I truly wave been mistreated for many many years (not including her EA).

And in my heart I am dying at her sadness. I hate to hurt her. Is it love or just plain human empathy?

Who knows...

All I know is I need to move forward.

I'm glad to hear that you are moving back in. If that's what you want than I'm happy for you.

A relationship takes two. Needs need to be met for both. Since my W EA (and before) my needs have not been met as all.

And so now I'm leaving!!!

I hope your W realizes that people need to feel loved by the people that are supposed to love them.

Before it's too late.

Good luck my friend!