I can see that going dark in my case isn't a viable option. It is clear my W's love tank has been empty for awhile, but how do you go about trying to fill it up with out pursuing or, if they don't want that from you?
I think I was at the same point with my spouse as you were 25, where I would argue and always try to be right. Instead of listening I would try and fix her issue, I have not argued with my wife for months, every since the D was dropped.
