You not showing any compassion makes you sound like an @$$ in this case. No offense.
Did I not write that I offered help? When I call my son's cell and SHE answers, 9 times out of 10, its to spew. So, I took no chances and just hung up.
I saw the 2nd degree burns and I freaked out. She needs medical attention. Since she decided to quit her job and remain unemployed, she has no medical insurance. So, I offered to pay her bill and insisted that she would go to wound care. She replied no.
Later that day, I did a grocery shopping for her and the kids. I spent roughly around $225. A few hours later, she spoke to some family members and told them what a piece of garbage that I am and that she KNOWS that she made the right choice in leaving me.
Oh BTW, this morning, I called S13 to say good morning. I asked how W as feeling and he said that shes in pain and S13 is angry at me because mommy told him that I did not buy her a Xmas present. If you read my previous post, I did get her something and she threw it back in my face telling me it was garbage.
So, considering the circumstances, I think Im being VERY compassionate.
OM is living at the house now. If he cares as much for her as W claims he does, she should of recieved the treatment she needed by now.
So, again, its like I stated before, no matter how good I do or how compassionate I am, its seems to be a lose lose situation.
Im not going to stop being good nor compassionate with her. But, I will avoid every chance she gets to spew.
Its funny... She left me, says she cant stand me, calls me every name in the book yet, she cant stop trying to communicate with me.
Its always something!
Someone care to shine a little light on this one???
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
