The sex question is a tough one and you'll get suggestions for or against it. In my case, H and I have continued to be intimate. I felt like it was my only time to "connect" with him and he would kiss and hold me. I don't know if my H is in a PA, I think it has "only" been EA plus kissing (though that is reason enough for me to want to throw up). I don't know that if I reject his advances, if that that would make him want to be intimate with OW. I do find it difficult when he returns to the distant H who doesn't show interest in me. I'm not sure how long I will be able to continue that myself. But you do have to answer the question for yourself. How does it make you feel? Do you think it's a way for you to "connect"?
