I usually don't have a problem sleeping. Last night I woke up and couldn't fall back to sleep, because my mind went straight to thinking of where my sitch is at the moment. Ugh...frustrating.
Now that my sitch has become more clear, I have some questions that I would like some input on.
My W likes to reach out to me and stay in touch. Perhaps she was getting ready to let me know what was going on. Who knows? It doesn't really matter the reason.
Maybe now that the cat is out of the bag, she will cut back on the contact.
I know that I'm getting ahead of myself, but I would like to be prepared. Plus I know some members have navigated these waters.
I know that interactions with her must stay positive. I'd like to remove myself as much as possible from her life. I just don't know if that is the right thing to do. Obviously having our children, she has a reason to contact me.
On the flip side, we had been doing things together with our children during my visits. I like the fact that we can do these things for our children's sake. I feel like that is a good thing.
I'd appreciate some feed back.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
