Separation, Moved back in, still ILYBNILWY

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Thanks for the replies!

Rick: Her primary complaints seemed to be not treating her well (she made a comparison of a security blanket and a video game, how they're treated, and that she wants to be the video game for once), a lack of passion, and lack of trust. She's also big into spirituality, something I have not been particularly active in until recently. She also hates my drinking habits.

KD: I'm definitely trying to take ownership of the problems that I've caused! It was a rude awakening when I realized just how much damage my mindset caused.

I wish I could interpret her moving back in as something positive for the R, but I feel that it's more a matter of convenience. Her mother lives about 45 minutes away, and she still works in town, so she had to do a lot of driving and wasn't able to hang out with friends as much as she would have liked as a result.

I think the biggest issue I need to address is my alcohol consumption. I drink 4-6 beers every night, and have been doing so for a years as a response to my anxiety. My dental hygiene is pretty messed up too, something I intend to correct when my tax return comes through (assuming that it will be a substantial amount).

I've got a bit of a plan starting to formulate in my head while trying to DB, including getting my teeth fixed and improving my smile, completely updating my wardrobe (most of my clothes are a few years old), and getting a new hairstyle. In general, completely renovating my physical appearance. I'm also looking for more ways to GAL, but it's difficult with my schedule plus having to look after my son on most of my days off.