KD-I will work on getting into the mindset you describe above. Your ideas help me get into a mindset free of negativity were I can write the letter that I want. The letter that truly represents me and my feelings for my W.
It might take me a couple of days to get started as I get my S back today and I usually focus on him and us as much as possible when I have him.
I will also be giving my L the papers to revise them as there is some disappointing things stated in there that my w said she would not do and I think the L convinced her she needs to ask for.
I will keep you posted and thanks to all for you help and support.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012