Are you telling me that because she has a friend staying over who is going through a bad divorce she can't text you about plans the two of you have made for that weekend which she isn't planning on following through on? So, she just leaves you hanging! Give me a break. That's red flag stuff to me. Also, please don't talk about if you're ex wanted to come back to you with the ladies, it isn't happening so why even bring it up! Don't go there. I agree with G, go with your gut on this one...keep your powder dry! It's not looking for perfection to expect someone to follow up on arrangements. It's called asking for basic respect...considering she's done this before to you.
