MLC is caused by major life changing events that serve as triggers:
- death of a family member
- loss of a job
- getting older
- empty nest
- birth of a child

Your H has neither of those.

Not to say that there is someone else, but how can you be sure that there isn't someone? It could very well be that there is an EA and he's beginning to feel that the grass is greener on the other side.

Write out in detail the things that he complains about. Forget about the snarky comments about you being "clingy". You may come off like that to him because you're trying to save your M. What have you been arguing about?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER