Brand New here, my story, my ?'s

[BeingMe]

So sorry you're going through this.

I used to snoop on my H's emails and read a lot of what you are reading now. I actually said to my H, "how can you think that you can just waltz into someone else's place, expecting the kids will just love you, because their mom does. You will be the reason their dad is gone. They'll end up hating you." This was a long time ago, and he never did leave, but we have other issues now, 7 years down the line. I wish now, that I had left then. But, I was also trying to make it work for the kids sake. My pastor told me not to do it for the children, but for myself. Anyway, for whatever reason you try and make it work, do so until you have tried everything (and you seem to be doing the best you can).

Take care.