P.S. .... since you are turning 30, and the window of opportunity to start a family is, more or less, the next five years, I would suggest you understand what would be your bottom line. If he really doesn't want children, then you should give this R a long, hard look. It's almost a bait and switch situation, IMO. He, of course, can start a family way further into the future, if he changes his mind in later years.
I say this because a niece of mine waited ... her H was in the military and was killed in action ... now she is 40, and there is no possibility of her having any children. She had a hard time as it was, getting pregnant, and she miscarried just before he was sent overseas.
Just a thought.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim