Oh, and yes... that was specifically about the letter...
But as far as the path... Man... I wish I had a crystal ball, but I don't...
I can say only this: Consider as many paths before you... make a choice of which to follow... be 100% committed to that choice and 100% clear of your responsibilities associated with your choice... and start moving forward.
I concede and appologize that is a cryptic answer and not really helpful.
I could suggest that you get down on your knees and from the deepest sorrow and angst of your soul, profess your undying love for your W and how you will support her on a pedestal for the rest of her life... but I won't...
I could suggest that you surrender to the reality that you cannot control and that you should now begin the process of financial separation and divorce and get on with your life without your W... but I won't...
I could suggest that you deny and ignore any and all negative aspects of your M, and just carry on with life, oblivious to and even in disregard to your W's wishes and desires... but I won't...
Because the harsh reality is... even the most difficult of things that are about us... are thing we need to do ourselves...
