Btw, coffee date became a lunch date. We left the coffee shop after two hours and went to a Congee place for lunch for another 2 hours or so. I then took her to the mall to buy a new phone. She was concerned because I had somewhere to go and I said "I'm here with you this afternoon and that's where I want to be. I have lots of time" This is something that impresses me about her. We went to the phone store and lined up for 10 minutes, when it's her turn the clerk tells her that she can't use her phone points today,which would save her $50 on the phone because their system is down. So after she gets all the info and he tells her to come back another day, she turns to me and says "That's good, I still get to save $50!" Anybody else would be pissed and be bitching and complaining but SDA Lady says "that's good, I still get to save $50" I said "you're such a positive person" This is a lady who works 6 days a week, doesn't drive, has stood in the stupid Fido line for 10 minutes only to hear that she can't get her discount today cuz their system is down and she says "that's good, I still get to save $50" and isn't pissed in the slightest! Wow. That really struck me. Just like all the sweet things she says to me. She just says what she feels, she doesn't give a crap whether it's strategically smart etc., if I do something she likes, she tells me. She thinks I'm sweet,she says so. It's so refreshing...and when I say sweet things to her, she loves it. Anyway...I'm a happy man right now. hey, she told me that she has 20 year olds emailing her saying "ur so hot!" she says I just write to them "what kind of thing is that to write to a lady who is old enough to be your mother!" lol.
